Chastity Belt Training 1: 7 days kept chaste with tasks from Lady Sas

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Hi Lady Alexa, being new to the FLR life, I am learning so much from reading your blog and the responses to your posts. What started as a contract between Selina and myself has been changed to Katrina’s Rules. We start and end each day with Selina reading my rules out loud. Selina must abide by my rules or face consequences. I do believe she is surprised at how much I’ve embraced feminizing her. The key is it’s feminization by my terms, not hers and it’s so exciting to me thinking that I’ve gone from grudgingly being willing to try this to wanting to feminize her completely. I now understand that the more I feminize her the more she will comply with whatever I desire.

The trainer is always greater and over the trainee. She uses his fantasies and motivation to his advantage, which ultimately speeds up the learning curve. Yes, becoming a sissy is a process. And shaving, although a sub-set of the more global aspect of sissyness, is a process of its very own. Many sissies share the fantasy of serving their wives or GF’s as a sissy maid. But how do you turn that fantasy into reality? Although not an easy task, there are ways to transform yourself into the sissy maid of your dreams. Here’s how…My relief was short-lived as something else almost immediately pressed against me and began to slip inside. At least it wasn't cold and seemed to be slightly soft, rigid but with a soft surface. It was large and stretched my sphincter painfully but after a large part of it was inside me it seemed to reduce in diameter and as my tight sphincter slid down the smaller portion it actually pulled Later on, it began to feel weird having no hair below the waist but a normal amount above, so… I started to shave my entire body. Selina is going to work more feminine than ever and we have a meeting on Wednesday with the head of HR to discuss her transitioning to working as a woman. The company is committed to diversity and believes people being themselves leads to a happier and more productive employee. The woman from HR is excited to assist Selina in becoming her ” true self” Day – Not much happens. Maybe some desire. Most men masturbate once or twice a day but it isn’t the end of the world if they skip a day since there isn’t much pressure to speak of. Daily masturbation is more of a habit, not a biological need. It is just a thought. Gender Role Reversal is happening more and more, and it is really nice to see what Wonderful Women as yourself and Lady Alexa are doing to subdue men and boys, and Take Control of Society to make it Better!

Fortunately, as you learn about ‘edging’ your partner, and what amount of tease and denial he can take, you will still be able to give him a ‘ruined orgasm’. Human keyholders also like you better if you do all the tasks they assign you. You wouldn't want to be with a keyholder who doesn't like you. ;) Many sissies fantasize about becoming a sissy maid and serving the Domme or Dom of their dreams. What would a typical day look like for a full-time sissy french maid? Would it be as fun and erotically exciting as it sounds? Let’s find out… By way of history, the first inclination of something different was when it came to sex. She wanted to be on top. She said that she found it easier to get aroused. There was a fair bit of experimenting early in the marriage where I would cum before her and go soft and she would be left unsatisfied. She said she wanted us to cum together but I would cum early. We went through a period where she was frustrated and then through discussion we agreed that I would hold off and giver her time to orgasm. But then having held off I couldn’t immediately cum and then I would get frustrated. We also talked through other aspects of sex were she indicated that often she felt obligated to just give me sex so I would not get grumpy or obligated to perform and fake orgasm so then proceed to my orgasm. I really had this desire to look after her and not put pressure on her and the end result of these discussions was that she would initiate sex. I was not to ask or talk about it or beg or plead. I would try to get her in the mood by making sure the house was clean and the chores all done. Give her flowers and so on. Over time, sex is only when she wants it and I never orgasm inside her. I get to masturbate about once a month but sometimes she will make me abstain for several months. If the man is expecting Her to do all of this then it is really missing the point. In FLRs, the power dynamic shifts so that the Women is in charge. However, this doesn’t mean that She has to now take complete responsibility for him and micro-manage his behaviours. Instead, he should be expected to manage his own behaviours in a way that always puts Her thoughts and feelings first. Her needs and desires are the priority for him.

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A great deal of this post resonated with me. Cages do not. My wife is 100% into FLR and chastity, and has mastered it over our almost 20 years of practice and exploration. I am in stable, indefinite chastity at this point. It took a decade to get to that level. She controls everything about my erotic mind, I literally cannot come unless she induces that desire. This is purely psychologically based control, I would just cut off a cage if I had one anyway…she now runs my labido as if she had an on off switch, and a volume knob. On command, on call. And I do the dishes, which now turns me on. (Any service to her is erotic at this point. It is almost surreal.)

Partly because of his keeping his word for a week and because of my new found ways of enjoyment, even with him in the thing, I asked him for a longer experiment, 6 weeks I thought. We framed it in our conversation as a step closer to FLR, having to do with my trust for him and his ability to deliver on a consistent basis; I figured if he could not make it 6 weeks what chance does he have at a lifestyle. I wanted to break away from his fantasy and fetish to the reality of life as a couple because most of the time he was just thinking of himself even while he invented reasons I might be interested. Of course, you won't be doing all the tasks. You let us know what you like, what you don't like, what toys you have, and we'll select your tasks based on this. Remember, you can also write an introduction about yourself ( more about introductions here), so if you're with a human keyholder, they can more clearly see what you would like to get out of your chastity sessions. I eventually shortened my sissy shaving intervals to once per week. What a difference! Believe me princess, it is soooooo much faster to shave when you don’t let your hair grow for more than seven days. This is such an easy answer; right now, or tomorrow if ‘ right now’ happens to be too late in the day. Tasks are a perfect solution to all the above. They give you something to do; they give you a chance to prove yourself; they give you a chance to show that you are better than everyone else.

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I am learning how to be a better leader and experienced mistresses like you and Lady Alexa help and teach me. I am not sure about chastity because its so fun to see Selina’s arousal when serving me and during the feminization process. I am open to the idea.

operate completely with Mistress in everything. It didn't appear that I really had much choice anyway and this was what I had dreamed up all my life, what I had dreamed of and much more. each day we would change his device and he cleaned the spare. he was in cuffs for the exchange so he would not cheat When it comes to punishment, your FLR is very different from mine. I do get penalties. With the whip, the paddle or the cane if violent offenses have occurred. Masturbation or lying would be something like that, for example. Then it will really hurt. My wife gets great satisfaction when I beg to stop and vow to do better. Above all, she enjoys the power to comply or not to comply with my begging. Unfortunately, she feels just as comfortable in the role of the kind as in the role of the unimpressed. The latter more often.I like sissies to have a butt plug in for the evenings but I know that’s difficult as Alice’s often slips out. RULES ARE RULES FOR SISSIES There are many reasons why a GG may not shave as often as we do. The first is that the hair on their legs is typcially thinner, lighter in color and less dense so they can get away with shaving less. It is similar in our FLR. My wife also wants a man who is something she can outwardly be proud of. But she lets me be the man in the house I want to be there: a beta male, submissive and also a bit masochistic. Seven Day – This is my favorite cycle for my guy. After release he will have heightened levels of Oxytocin and be generally more agreeable/mold-able by the third or fourth seven day cycle. You will notice a man on a seven day cycle will tend to be more loving, more willing to do things around the house like cleaning and parenting. Hormones released before ejaculation will linger in the body for the next five to seven days so you will get an overall better man when you’ve got him on his 7 day cycle. You will find that this will get you a more verbal male capable of deeper more emotional conversations. After about the third day, he will open up and have share feelings that he wouldn’t normally share. His increasing hormones will encourage him to talk and share his feelings. Once you are on a good seven day cycle, you can expect to build a deeper connection with him.