TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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The key is getting the right fit. You’ll need to have accurate measurements to find the right size chastity cage for you, and even then, everybody and every cage is different, so it’s normal to go through some trial and error. While not all chastity devices list a gap size, it’s usually easy to see from pictures if a cage has a large or small gap, relative to the device's size itself. Estimates can be made from the product's total length. The two most important measurements are the ring diameter, and the cage length. Diameter can also help with comfort but in the majority of cases if you choose the right length, the diameter will also be correct.

Wearing a chastity device means your penis is denied the full sensation you usually experience, you won’t be able to touch yourself, even when visiting the bathroom and this is going to be frustrating. BDSM purists will say that metal is the only option for serious chastity play. They keep the penis under tight control and often allow plenty of ventilation. Chafing and circulation are a concern if they’re too tight, so make sure you apply some lubricant regularly to avoid skin damage.

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Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable?

When Shakespeare wrote, “discretion is the better part of valor”, he probably didn’t mean chastity cages. (Then again, who knows, maybe it was his thing.) If it’s not comfortable to wear, but you want it on forever, ask yourself: “Is this worth losing my penis over?” You might think that as long as your measurements are close then it should work out. You can get away with clothes that are slightly too big or too small, so why not chastity cages? But a poorly fitted chastity device can cause several problems. The measurements you’ll need are length and girth, plus the circumference from underneath your balls and over your penis. Write down these measurements while both flaccid and erect. The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful.They’re designed to inhibit erection and orgasm and hand over control to the Key Holder in the ultimate form of orgasm control. Maybe all you need to be the next Mozart, Voltaire, or Tesla is to deny yourself release. You can take off the cage when you’re rich and famous. It depends. If you want something to wear on and off during scenes, then a bit of discomfort could be acceptable if that’s what you and your partner want.

Aim for the tip of your penis to touch the tip of the cage. This will let you urinate through the hole at the tip. Even for those who enjoy pain, a chastity cage shouldn’t hurt. If it does, it could cause lesions, blisters, or even permanent damage. You have to remember these devices aren’t tested. They’re not medical devices, so there’s basically no science telling us if they’re safe or dangerous. Generally wearing a chastity device does not hurt, but you shouldn’t always expect it to feel comfortable right away. It can take a some time to become used to it; both physically and mentally. Once you’ve become accustomed to wearing it at times it will sometimes feel as if the cage is “caressing” your penis. This can heighten arousal, and feels like you’re wearing your own personal “bondage cuddle”. If you are between sizes, choose the larger size. This leaves room for your penis to grow slightly during the day.This measurement helps you find the right gap size for your chastity cage—the gap size is simply the distance between the bottom of the ring and the tube. This measurement is usually non-critical for most, but if you have larger-than-normal testicles or testicles that are tight and close to your body, you may find that cages with small gaps put uncomfortable pressure on your testicles. So all in all it’s not worth looking for a cage you can keep on forever, at least in my opinion. Get one that fits without causing pain and leave it on until it starts to smell, then take it off to clean for a bit. Rinse and repeat. Literally. Place the tape measure on top of your penis against your pubic muscle. Wrap the tape measure all the way around your penis and testicles and note where it crosses over. Consider the temperature when measuring. If it’s cold your penis will be smaller. If it’s warm your penis will be larger. Not to get all preachy about the prevalence of porn and instant gratification in our society or anything, but…