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Well, if you do decide to continue the chase you might cause yourself some emotional damage. You might end up calling her every day, wondering what you’re doing wrong, or even getting jealous over the fact she’s still talking to other men. You are missing out on the things and people and relationships that are meant for you by wasting all your time and energy and emotions on the things that are not. When you stop chasing the things that aren’t for you, you give the things that ARE a chance to catch up to you. But as long as you’re caught up in the drama of a hopelessly frustrating and seemingly endless pursuit, you literally have blinders to all the amazing things already staring you right in the face. Men typically notice when you cease your pursuit. This shift can either spark their curiosity and make them chase you in return or, if they aren’t interested, confirm their disinterest. It’s an effective way to assess their level of interest. They won’t chase just for the sake of chasing (although they also derive some pleasure from it), but because of the possibility to win and feel victorious and get rewarded when they get you. Because actually – you may find there’s someone far more suitable, right in front of you… only this guy will genuinely love and appreciate you, for everything and all that you are! 7) If You Stop Chasing Men, They’re More Likely To Appreciate You
So, maybe your guy doesn’t think that he needs to ‘bring things down to a woman’s level’ but still, I am sure that there’s something equally disturbing about him. Relationships should be mutually respectful and beneficial and that is achieved when both partners are equally invested in the relationship and care deeply for each other. Right ladies, it’s time to stop chasing men! I mean really, why do we do it for ourselves? Why do we go for the guys that seem unattainable or disinterested?You might think you’re doing “something” when you’re telling her “you won’t give up on her”even when you notice she doesn’t seem comfortable with all the unnecessary attention. Trust me, you’re doing “something,” but it isn’t something good. Chasing a guy can take its toll on you. It may affect your self-worth, and the guy won’t feel obligated to respect you because he is sure you won’t walk away. Devote time to developing yourself and being a better person. He will notice the change and want you. When you focused on him, he was the only one you saw and nobody else. Now, he’s been moved to the sidelines, and you may notice that other men are interested in you. One of them might just be a better fit for you. You might even start thinking that you are not worthy of his attention to begin with but this isn’t true and never will be.
All that said, I am also very much a traditionalist when it comes to dating. I don’t need to be doggedly pursued, but I do prefer that the man make the first move. I prefer that the man be the initiator of at least the first date. Because I view dating as dance, I prefer the guy take the lead; not all the time, but the majority of the time, especially in the early stages of dating. I’m not afraid to ask a man out, and I’ve been known to do it, but it’s not my preference. Why? Because I’ve never had good results when I’ve been in a dating situation where I was the primary instigator. Usually when I’m the primary instigator, it’s a pretty clear sign that he’s just not that into me. I don’t know about you, but I’ve never known a man who didn’t go after something he REALLY wanted. (Maybe you feel differently, and that’s totally cool!)He says you show it in those situations where, if you just were a bit more flexible, he would find you more pleasant to be around. You may have grown up hearing that men are inherently chasers, hunters, driven by the thrill of the chase, etc. There could be some truth in that. After all, scientists have proved that men really do love the chase. And he spells it clear for the reader: while withdrawing as a tactic can work, her actions are not based on self-respect. You can tell from her actions that she’s into you. She’s inviting. She will say to you in words and her actions that she’s not into you. He shouldn’t need ‘training’ or ‘reminding’, nor should be need convincing that you’re worth it. He should just do it, because he wants to do it.
It’s no secret that most men love the thrill of the chase. When they meet a woman who doesn’t seem to share their interest at first, they can’t help but put in the work to change her mind. Let me be the one to set the record straight: Don’t chase women. Bruce has a super interesting view on being with men who “need your help” or “need a woman’s touch”. She says she’s going to call you but she doesn’t? She promises she will come to Sunday brunch to meet some of your friends but she doesn’t show up? You might end up chasing after someone who doesn’t exist because you created a distorted image of them in your head. If he doesn’t, it’s for the best because he wasn’t really interested in you to begin with. 11. You will neglect your friendsDo not confuse a great guy with the right guy. He may be a great guy but still not be ready to give you the commitment you want - therefore he's not the right guy at this time.
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