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Before then, I had so wanted love that it never occurred to me that I might actually be covertly working against it. Often people seeking a love partner will turn to practical, “how to” methods such as dating advice or behavioural approaches that make us look more attractive to their date. These approaches have their place, for sure, but may cause us to look only at external reasons for us not having the love we heartily desire. We can miss some very important points and develop mistaken beliefs that e.g. “there are no good men left in the world”, “all the good women are involved elsewhere”, “I’m not physically attractive enough” and often “there must be something wrong with me because no one wants me”. You can learn how much love someone has to give by how they show up in life through their consistency (doing what they say) and sensitivity towards you and others. When I called a friend to share my intention, I was relieved that she didn’t laugh or tell me that a woman over 40 has a better chance of being hit by a bus than of finding a wonderful husband.
When we blame others for the current situation in our lives, we are failing to take responsibility for our choices. Secretly, I worried if there was something wrong with me. When asked, “Why aren’t you married?” I’d murmur something about never having met the right person. All the while worried that maybe I’d never been the right person. I kept trying to figure it out. Maybe men didn’t like strong, mission-driven women. Maybe I’d waited too long to take my desire for love seriously because by now, it seemed that all the good ones were already taken.
Magical “flirting with life” techniques to immediately create affinity with the people you meet; and The importance of differentiating between questions that help gain insight vs. those that we find ourselves asking in hopes of receiving a fixed answer. This is an important reminder to let go of expectations! The new course is also informed by the latest findings in neuroscience about how to create healthy, happy love (even if you’ve been “love addicted” or “love avoidant” for years!) and which will more fully set you up to navigate the relationship you “call in” to new heights of happiness and well-being in love. See clearly the subtle and covert ways of relating that have unconsciously been causing you to duplicate old painful patterns in love, and access the power you possess to finally graduate from them forever.
Do you find yourself tongue tied when meeting new people on the phone or online? Do you get particularly nervous when it’s someone you are actually attracted to? Unsure of how to connect with you can’t reach out and touch someone physically? Magic only happens when we are fully present and available to see what is in front of us rather than preoccupying ourselves with what is not. Our words have the power to create our reality and can be seen as a literal “instruction manual” for the universe.Your complete and undivided attention is the greatest gift you have to offer to anyone. Listening is love in action! When we have poor boundaries we often attract relationships with partners that take more than give. And hard as I tried to have the story go another way (the endless hours in therapy talking about my relationship “issues,” the countless self-help books read and the many transformational seminars attended) at the end of the day . . . it just seemed like it was my fate to be alone.
Begin relating to your desires as a delightful and inspired blueprint for the partnership that’s possible for you to create and sustain. In finally looking within to discover myself as the source of my painful relational patterns, I began to clearly see the subtle yet pervasive ways I was unknowingly keeping it at bay. Our ability to recognize what we are feeling, when we are feeling it is the “keystone” to emotional intelligence (Goleman). It had been years since I first heard about Katherine Woodward Thomas’ book: “ Calling in the One.” and after many failed attempts to complete the exercises found in this book, I am proud to say that I have finally done the work and am excited to share with you my top 49 lessons. March 21, 2022 Yep, I got catfished. But who hasn’t these days?! Either they’re lying about their age, height, whether they live here or are just visiting Miami temporarily, how spiritual or religious they are,…Week 1 focused on preparing yourself for love and creating space both figuratively and literally for “the one” to come into your life. Promise yourself moving forward that your sexual encounters will be empowering ones and forgive yourself for poor judgement in the past.
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